Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships
below is a quick resource of traits of healthy vs unhealthy relationships. Domestic violence isn't just physical, it can be controlling finances, criticizing appearances and keeping a partner from seeing their loved ones.
Healthy
Self Confidence
Confidence in yourself and in your relationship with others. You express your opinions but don't force them.
Compromise
Acknowledge different points of view and be willing to give and take.
Problem Solving
Talking through difficult situations and finding solutions together.
Consent
Agreeing to sexual activities you're both comfortable with;
able to say, "no" at any time.
Communication
Speaking honestly with your partner; willing to wait until he/she is ready to talk.
Unhealthy
Dependence
Feeling you "cannot live" without your partner, or threatening harm if they leave you.
Control
One person makes all the decisions and is unwilling to see the other's point of view
Physical Violence
Using force (hitting, grabbing, shoving) to get his/her way.
Sexual Violence
Forcing an unwilling partner into sexual activities against his/her will.
Intimidation
Trying to control a partner or situation using fear or intimidation.